Ways to Calm Yourself Down:
We
all get upset and upset from time to time. It's a normal part of life, right?
But what happens when it comes to anxiety or anger, and you can't calm down?
It's easier said than done.
That's why when you feel anxious or angry, some strategies you know can help. Here are some helpful, practical tips that you can try next time you need to calm down.
No1: Admit you are angry:
Allow
yourself to say that you are upset or angry. When you label how you are feeling
and allow yourself to express yourself, the anxiety and anger you are
experiencing may be lessened.
No2: Breath:
There are several breathing techniques to help you calm down. There are three parts to one breath. Three-part breathing requires you to take a deep breath and then exhale completely, focusing on your body.
Once you find comfort in deep breathing, you can change the breath-to-breath ratio to 1: 2 (you will exhale to double the length of your breath). Calmly follow these techniques so that when you are upset you know how to do them.
When you are upset or angry, you take quick, shallow breaths. Doherty says it sends a message to your brain, giving you a loop of positive feedback that reinforces your fight or flight response. That's why taking long, deep calm breaths disrupts this loop and helps you calm down.
No3: You’re Thoughts:
One
part of being restless or angry is irrational thoughts that you don't consider
necessary. These thoughts are often the "worst-case scenario." You
get caught up in the "what if" cycle, which can sabotage a lot of
things in your life.
• Is this a rational thought?
• Has this ever happened to me before?
• What’s the worst that can happen? Can
I handle?
After
going through the questions, it's time to rethink your thinking. Instead,
"I can't walk on this bridge. What if there is an earthquake, and it falls
into the water? Let yourself know: "There are individuals who cross this
extension consistently, and they never cross. I don't fall.
No4: Release Anger:
Doherty
recommends gaining emotional energy with exercise. "Go for a walk or a
run. Get some actual work in serotonin to help you remain quiet and feel
good." However, you should avoid physical activity that involves
expressing anger, such as punching or screaming at walls.
"It's
appeared to advance sensations of outrage since it fortifies the feelings in
light of the fact that being irate causes you to feel great."
No5: Visualization:
This
sign requires you to follow the breathing techniques you have learned. After
taking a few deep breaths, close your eyes, and take a calm picture. Calm your
body, and imagine working through stressful or stressful situations by staying
calm and focused.
No6: Thinking:
There
is a mantra to use in critical situations. Just make sure it helps you. It
might be, "Will it have any sort of impact on me a multi-week from
now?" Or "How important is this?" Or "Am I allowed to steal
my peace from this person/situation?"It assists with zeroing in on
reasoning, and you can give the circumstance a "reality test".
When
we are upset or angry, we focus too much on that goal, and rational thoughts
leave our minds. These mantras give us the opportunity to return to rational
thinking and lead to better results.
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